We live in Utah that is famous (or infamous) for its Mormon culture. If you are not Mormon, it might not be easy to make friends, people might not understand your religious views or your political opinion. They might interrogate you why you and your husband do not have children.
From time to time I have this re-occurring conversation:
“Do you have children?” A kind, encouraging smile.
“Not, yet, huh? When are you planning to have kids?” A determined look into my face. Still smiling, though.
“We are not planning on having children.”